If you want to write, and you have a busy life, you need tell that To-Do List who’s boss. (It’s you, you’re the boss.) — But how, writers are always asking themselves, each other, me, their Google calendars, can I find time to write? There’s work and family and household and being a citizen and the car needs a new muffler and the cat barfed on the rug and also I’m tired, I’m just so…